I help rejected parents reconnect with their children after divorce.

I show rejected, alienated or estranged parents exactly what to say and do to get their angry, manipulated child to accept them again...using my own real-life experiences.

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Are you a parent going through a divorce or the aftermath of a custody battle and your child is angry and being turned against you? If you can feel them slipping away you have to act fast because this is the most emotionally traumatizing time for them - and if they blame you, you could lose them forever.

My name is Ryan Thomas, I help parents navigate through this critical time by showing them exactly what to say and do to maximize every moment to save the relationship.

While your attorney protects your legal rights, we focus on the daily interactions and communications that will determine whether you have a relationship or not when it's over.


…Blaming you for every bad thing that is happening in their life.

…Being shown court documents and details to hurt you.

…Accusing you of abandoning them, taking all the money, and leaving them homeless.

…Made to believe false stories and lies about you.

…Acting out with aggression, name calling, swearing and throwing destructive tantrums.

…Denigrating anything you do or offer as stupid and worthless.

…Rejecting your gifts, phone calls, texts, or other communications.

…Refusing to show up for parenting time (or making the time miserable.)

…Pushing you and your family away. (Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Friends)

…Holding you hostage with demands and ultimatums.

…Parroting the nasty words of your ex (and thinking they are their own beliefs.)

If you feel like everyone and everything is against you, and you don’t know how to turn things around, without making mistakes that can set you back years…I can help.


Ryan Thomas helps rejected parents in over 25 countries reconnect with their children. He works with high-conflict situations, divorce, custody battles, parental alienation and some of the most extreme cases of rejection.

He’s known as the “Parent Whisperer,” telling parents exactly what to say and do to get their children back. He uses his own real-life experiences of rejecting his Dad for over 20 years, to help parents get inside the mind of their child and develop a new approach, communication, and behavior to reach them.

Ryan works with high-profile clients, celebrities, and everyday parents who love their children and will not rest until they have reconnected. He and his work have been featured in US News & World Report, Entrepreneur Magazine, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, iHeart Radio & more. Ryan is the Creator of the "Get Them Back" Program, Author of Sabotaged: 3 Hidden Weapons of Parental Alienation, and Founder of

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