Get Them Back: The Complete System — Ryan Thomas's Complete Navigation System
Ryan Thomas's Complete Navigation System
There is someone who knows exactly what your child needs to hear.
Because he once believed the same things your child may believe about you.
For more than twenty years, Ryan Thomas was the child who rejected a loving parent. Today, he helps parents understand what their children are really thinking—and exactly what to do next.
Get Them Back is Ryan Thomas's complete navigation system for knowing exactly what to do next—no matter where you are in the relationship.
The End of Guessing
Every text message feels important.
Every decision feels permanent.
Should you wait?
Reach out?
Send a gift?
Write a letter?
Respond differently?
You already have the love. Now you need the clarity to know what to do with it.
Get Them Back gives you a clear path forward. You'll know what to say, what to do, what to avoid, and how to move forward with greater confidence.
"Children reconnect when something changes inside the relationship."
That change begins with understanding what your child needs to hear, what they need to experience, and how they currently see you.
Ryan understands this from a perspective few others can offer. He once believed the story being told about his own father. He knows what rejection looks like from inside the mind of the child—and what can begin to change it.
You can create that change.
What Moves the Relationship Forward
Understand what your child is really hearing.
Recognize the story they may be telling themselves about you.
Create moments that shift perception.
Know when to act.
Know when to give the moment room.
Communicate in ways that create openness rather than resistance.
The Eight Stages
One Complete System
Stage One
Creating Your Secret Advantage
Discover what your child still carries from the relationship you once shared—and how to use that existing bond as the foundation for what comes next.
Stage Two
Reinvent Your Communication
Learn how to communicate in ways that reach beyond resistance, lower emotional defenses, and create a different experience of you.
Stage Three
Overcome the Brainwashing
Understand how beliefs are formed, reinforced, and protected—and how new experiences can begin to challenge what your child has accepted as true.
Stage Four
Attract Your Child to You
Create the conditions that make connection feel safer, easier, and more natural without pressure or emotional pursuit.
Stage Five
Wake Them Up
Introduce the moments, language, and experiences that encourage your child to think differently and begin seeing the relationship through a wider lens.
Stage Six
Bring the Walls Down
Learn how trust is rebuilt through patterns, emotional safety, and consistent experiences that gradually reduce resistance.
Stage Seven
Make the Alienator Powerless
Strengthen your relationship in ways that make outside interference less influential and your connection more resilient.
Stage Eight
Gain Influence and Trust
Build the kind of relationship in which your child can hear you, trust your intentions, and experience you for themselves.
Your Complete Navigation Toolkit
Everything You'll Use Along the Way
As you move through Get Them Back, you'll unlock a complete collection of training, communication resources, recorded coaching, and practical tools designed to support every stage of your journey.
Each resource has a specific purpose. Together, they become a complete navigation toolkit you can return to whenever you need clarity about what to do next.
Core Training
Ryan's Complete Video Training
The foundation of Get Them Back is Ryan's complete eight-stage navigation system. Each module builds on the last, helping you understand your child's behavior, improve communication, rebuild trust, and move forward with greater confidence.
Communication
Step-by-Step Communication Training
Learn the communication framework Ryan has developed through his lived experience and years of helping parents reconnect with their children. You'll discover practical strategies, new vocabulary, message structures, timing, and communication patterns designed for real-life situations.
Emotion & Mindset
Emotion & Mindset Training
Rebuilding a relationship requires more than knowing what to say. Jen's guided training helps you better understand rejection, regain emotional steadiness, reduce fear, and communicate from a place of confidence instead of overwhelm—while building the resilience, awareness, and perspective that support everything you learn throughout Get Them Back.
Your Playbook
Your Personalized Playbook
As you move through the system, you'll build a personalized strategy for your relationship. Your Playbook becomes the place where your communication approach, insights, scripts, and next steps come together into one practical guide you can return to whenever circumstances change.
Ready to Use
Scripts, Templates & Messages
Transform ideas into action with customizable scripts, communication templates, guided examples, and practical resources you can immediately adapt to your own situation.
Beyond the Core System
Eight On-Demand Momentum Sessions
Continue learning beyond the core system with eight additional recorded sessions from Ryan and Jen, expanding on key concepts, answering common questions, and helping you continue building momentum.
Keep Going
GTB: Evolve
Four additional weeks of self-guided training designed to help you continue applying what you've learned after completing the core system.
Coaching Library
Ryan's Best-of Communication Coaching Library
A curated library of Ryan's most valuable recorded coaching sessions, practical communication breakdowns, and real-world examples you can revisit anytime.
Coaching Library
Jen's Best-of Emotion Coaching Library
A curated collection of Jen's most impactful recorded coaching sessions focused on emotional resilience, confidence, perspective, and staying grounded throughout the relationship.
Foundational Course
The Alienated Mind: Parental Alienation Explained
An in-depth video course exploring how alienation develops, why children adopt distorted beliefs, and how understanding those dynamics changes the way you communicate and rebuild trust.
"Limited or No-Contact" Strategies Library
Blocked on email or phone? Is everything intercepted by the alienator? You get a library of step-by-step tactics on how to make contact, send gifts and messages, and get connected—even if you've been blocked, ignored, or intercepted.
Lifetime Access
Because Relationships Change
New conversations happen. New opportunities appear. And every stage of the relationship presents different questions.
Your Navigation Toolkit remains available whenever you need it.
Built to Be Used in Real Life
Every part of Get Them Back is designed to help you move from understanding to action. You'll learn what to say, what to do, when to act, and how to respond as the relationship changes.
You can move through the system at your own pace, return to it whenever you need guidance, and use what you learn immediately.
★★★★★
After 11 and a half years of silence, I got another reply! I am dumbfounded. We are now talking 45-60 minutes DAILY! Everyday is Christmas to me. Thank you.
— Scott, Dad
★★★★★
I feel very grateful on a daily basis for Get Them Back and for the investment I've made. So I'm very grateful for the breakthroughs I've made in parts of my life that I didn't even anticipate before I signed up.
— Lee, Dad
★★★★★
I've been using the tools you taught me, and as I type this now, she's sleeping in her bed in our home after a lovely dinner & movie on the couch together. The last time she was in my home was a year and a half ago. Love to you, Ryan and Jen.
— Anne, Mom
★★★★★
This program has been a game changer for me. It's really helped me get onto a path that I don't honestly think I would've found without you and Jen. The healing that I've experienced and continue to experience has been MONUMENTAL. The information, the healing, the support, the kindness, the compassion, the complete understanding and the safe space that you both provide is truly phenomenal and, again, I cannot imagine who or where I'd be without you both.
— Loralee, Mom
★★★★★
I've been making excellent breakthroughs. It is the first time in 5 years that she reaches out first to tell me how she is doing. We went from 2-3 text messages per month, to about 3-5 per week. Our communication on text is a lot more frequent. You and Jen do incredible work, and I am so glad that our paths have crossed.
— Sarah, Mom
Why Ryan Thomas
Ryan Understands
Because He Lived It.
Ryan Thomas understands this relationship from both sides. He spent more than twenty years separated from his father after accepting a story that reshaped how he saw the relationship. He eventually found his way back.
That lived experience became the foundation of his work helping parents understand what their children may be thinking, what creates resistance, and what can begin to change the relationship.
For more than two decades, Ryan has worked at the intersection of communication, crisis strategy, media, and complex family relationships, serving clients in 25 countries. He is the author of Sabotaged, Confessions of an Alienated Child, and The Relationship Standoff.
Get Them Back brings his complete relationship rebuilding system together in one place.
You Finally Have a Plan.
Every conversation. Every setback. Every opening. Every next move.
All guided by Ryan Thomas's complete navigation system.
Everything Inside
Get Them Back: The Complete System
- Ryan's Complete Video Training — The Eight Stages
- Step-by-Step Communication Training
- Emotion & Mindset Training
- Your Personalized Playbook
- Scripts, Templates & Messages
- Eight On-Demand Momentum Sessions
- GTB: Evolve
- Ryan's Best-of Communication Coaching Library
- Jen's Best-of Emotion Coaching Library
- The Alienated Mind: Parental Alienation Explained
- Bonus: "Limited or No-Contact" Strategies Library
- Lifetime Access
Get Them Back
The Complete System
Self-Guided
$2,000
or 2 payments of $1,150
