Get Them Back: The Complete System — Ryan Thomas's Complete Navigation System
Ryan Thomas's Complete Navigation System
There is someone who knows exactly what your child needs to hear.
Because he once believed the same things your child may believe about you.
For more than twenty years, Ryan Thomas was the child who rejected a loving parent. Today, he helps parents understand what their children are really thinking—and exactly what to do next.
Get Them Back is Ryan Thomas's complete navigation system for knowing exactly what to do next—no matter where you are in the relationship.
The End of Guessing
Every text message feels important.
Every decision feels permanent.
Should you wait?
Reach out?
Send a gift?
Write a letter?
Respond differently?
You already have the love. Now you need the clarity to know what to do with it.
Get Them Back gives you a clear path forward. You'll know what to say, what to do, what to avoid, and how to move forward with greater confidence.
"Children reconnect when something changes inside the relationship."
That change begins with understanding what your child needs to hear, what they need to experience, and how they currently see you.
Ryan understands this from a perspective few others can offer. He once believed the story being told about his own father. He knows what rejection looks like from inside the mind of the child—and what can begin to change it.
You can create that change.
What Moves the Relationship Forward
Understand what your child is really hearing.
Recognize the story they may be telling themselves about you.
Create moments that shift perception.
Know when to act.
Know when to give the moment room.
Communicate in ways that create openness rather than resistance.
Private Access to Ryan Thomas
Get Ryan's Guidance Through Private Audio Messages Each Week.
For eight weeks, you won't have to rely on the training alone to decide what to do next.
Each week, you can send Ryan a private audio message about the question, decision, conversation, setback—or silence—you're dealing with right now.
Ryan will personally listen and respond with his perspective on what he sees, what matters most, and what he believes you should do next.
No appointments to schedule. No waiting for a coaching call. No trying to figure out on your own how the strategy applies to your situation.
Wondering whether you should reach out?
What to say in a message?
How to respond to something your child just said?
Whether you've waited long enough?
What to do when nothing seems to be changing?
Or whether what you're doing is helping at all?
Bring it to Ryan.
Get Them Back gives you Ryan's complete system for rebuilding the relationship.
Get Them Back: Private gives you the system—and Ryan's personal guidance while you put it to work.
Private Audio Guidance
Your Situation. Your Question. Ryan's Perspective.
Each week for eight weeks, you can send Ryan a private audio message about what is happening in your relationship.
A difficult text comes in. Your child suddenly reaches out. You are deciding whether to respond, wait, send something, change direction, or handle a setback differently.
Instead of trying to guess how the training applies, you can bring that moment directly to Ryan. He will personally review your message and respond with what he is seeing, what matters most, and how he would approach the next move.
No Scheduling Required
Get Guidance Without Building Your Life Around Another Appointment.
Your relationship does not unfold according to a coaching calendar.
With Get Them Back: Private, there is no weekly Zoom call to schedule, no fixed meeting time to protect, and no need to save everything for a future appointment.
You work through Get Them Back when it fits your life. Then, once each week, you can bring Ryan the question, development, conversation, or decision that matters most right now.
It is private guidance designed to fit into real life rather than becoming another obligation on your calendar.
Stop Second-Guessing the Next Move
When something changes, you do not have to spend days replaying every possible response in your head. Bring Ryan the situation and get a clearer perspective on what matters now.
Turn the Training Into Your Strategy
The system gives you the principles. Private guidance helps you translate those principles into the reality of your child, your history, your communication, and the stage of the relationship you are actually in.
Get Ryan's Eyes on the Moments That Matter
You choose what deserves your private submission each week. A message. A setback. An opening. A decision. A shift you are noticing. The guidance stays focused on the most important thing happening now.
Build Better Judgment Over Time
The goal is not simply to answer eight questions. As Ryan walks you through what he sees and why, you begin recognizing patterns, thinking more strategically, and making stronger decisions yourself.
Eight Weeks of Private Guidance
Not More Information.
Help Applying the Right Information at the Right Time.
You already receive Ryan's complete navigation system, communication training, scripts, templates, recorded coaching, and additional resources.
Private adds the piece a self-guided system cannot provide: Ryan looking at what is happening in your relationship and helping you interpret what to do next.
Benefits of Private Access
- Eight weeks of private access to Ryan Thomas
- One private audio submission each week focused on the situation, question, conversation, or decision that matters most
- A personal audio response from Ryan with his perspective, strategy, and guidance on what to do next
- No live-call scheduling and no need to coordinate calendars
- Guidance that evolves with your relationship as new conversations, setbacks, openings, and decisions happen
The Eight Stages
One Complete System
Stage One
Creating Your Secret Advantage
Discover what your child still carries from the relationship you once shared—and how to use that existing bond as the foundation for what comes next.
Stage Two
Reinvent Your Communication
Learn how to communicate in ways that reach beyond resistance, lower emotional defenses, and create a different experience of you.
Stage Three
Overcome the Brainwashing
Understand how beliefs are formed, reinforced, and protected—and how new experiences can begin to challenge what your child has accepted as true.
Stage Four
Attract Your Child to You
Create the conditions that make connection feel safer, easier, and more natural without pressure or emotional pursuit.
Stage Five
Wake Them Up
Introduce the moments, language, and experiences that encourage your child to think differently and begin seeing the relationship through a wider lens.
Stage Six
Bring the Walls Down
Learn how trust is rebuilt through patterns, emotional safety, and consistent experiences that gradually reduce resistance.
Stage Seven
Make the Alienator Powerless
Strengthen your relationship in ways that make outside interference less influential and your connection more resilient.
Stage Eight
Gain Influence and Trust
Build the kind of relationship in which your child can hear you, trust your intentions, and experience you for themselves.
Your Complete Navigation Toolkit
Everything You'll Use Along the Way
As you move through Get Them Back, you'll unlock a complete collection of training, communication resources, recorded coaching, and practical tools designed to support every stage of your journey.
Each resource has a specific purpose. Together, they become a complete navigation toolkit you can return to whenever you need clarity about what to do next.
Core Training
Ryan's Complete Video Training
The foundation of Get Them Back is Ryan's complete eight-stage navigation system. Each module builds on the last, helping you understand your child's behavior, improve communication, rebuild trust, and move forward with greater confidence.
Communication
Step-by-Step Communication Training
Learn the communication framework Ryan has developed through his lived experience and years of helping parents reconnect with their children. You'll discover practical strategies, new vocabulary, message structures, timing, and communication patterns designed for real-life situations.
Emotion & Mindset
Emotion & Mindset Training
Rebuilding a relationship requires more than knowing what to say. Jen's guided training helps you better understand rejection, regain emotional steadiness, reduce fear, and communicate from a place of confidence instead of overwhelm—while building the resilience, awareness, and perspective that support everything you learn throughout Get Them Back.
Your Playbook
Your Personalized Playbook
As you move through the system, you'll build a personalized strategy for your relationship. Your Playbook becomes the place where your communication approach, insights, scripts, and next steps come together into one practical guide you can return to whenever circumstances change.
Ready to Use
Scripts, Templates & Messages
Transform ideas into action with customizable scripts, communication templates, guided examples, and practical resources you can immediately adapt to your own situation.
Beyond the Core System
Eight On-Demand Momentum Sessions
Continue learning beyond the core system with eight additional recorded sessions from Ryan and Jen, expanding on key concepts, answering common questions, and helping you continue building momentum.
Keep Going
GTB: Evolve
Four additional weeks of self-guided training designed to help you continue applying what you've learned after completing the core system.
Coaching Library
Ryan's Best-of Communication Coaching Library
A curated library of Ryan's most valuable recorded coaching sessions, practical communication breakdowns, and real-world examples you can revisit anytime.
Coaching Library
Jen's Best-of Emotion Coaching Library
A curated collection of Jen's most impactful recorded coaching sessions focused on emotional resilience, confidence, perspective, and staying grounded throughout the relationship.
Foundational Course
The Alienated Mind: Parental Alienation Explained
An in-depth video course exploring how alienation develops, why children adopt distorted beliefs, and how understanding those dynamics changes the way you communicate and rebuild trust.
"Limited or No-Contact" Strategies Library
Blocked on email or phone? Is everything intercepted by the alienator? You get a library of step-by-step tactics on how to make contact, send gifts and messages, and get connected—even if you've been blocked, ignored, or intercepted.
Lifetime Access
Because Relationships Change
New conversations happen. New opportunities appear. And every stage of the relationship presents different questions.
Your Navigation Toolkit remains available whenever you need it.
Built to Be Used in Real Life
Every part of Get Them Back is designed to help you move from understanding to action. You'll learn what to say, what to do, when to act, and how to respond as the relationship changes.
You can move through the system at your own pace, return to it whenever you need guidance, and use what you learn immediately.
★★★★★
After 11 and a half years of silence, I got another reply! I am dumbfounded. We are now talking 45-60 minutes DAILY! Everyday is Christmas to me. Thank you.
— Scott, Dad
★★★★★
I feel very grateful on a daily basis for Get Them Back and for the investment I've made. So I'm very grateful for the breakthroughs I've made in parts of my life that I didn't even anticipate before I signed up.
— Lee, Dad
★★★★★
I've been using the tools you taught me, and as I type this now, she's sleeping in her bed in our home after a lovely dinner & movie on the couch together. The last time she was in my home was a year and a half ago. Love to you, Ryan and Jen.
— Anne, Mom
★★★★★
This program has been a game changer for me. It's really helped me get onto a path that I don't honestly think I would've found without you and Jen. The healing that I've experienced and continue to experience has been MONUMENTAL. The information, the healing, the support, the kindness, the compassion, the complete understanding and the safe space that you both provide is truly phenomenal and, again, I cannot imagine who or where I'd be without you both.
— Loralee, Mom
★★★★★
I've been making excellent breakthroughs. It is the first time in 5 years that she reaches out first to tell me how she is doing. We went from 2-3 text messages per month, to about 3-5 per week. Our communication on text is a lot more frequent. You and Jen do incredible work, and I am so glad that our paths have crossed.
— Sarah, Mom
Why Ryan Thomas
Ryan Understands
Because He Lived It.
Ryan Thomas understands this relationship from both sides. He spent more than twenty years separated from his father after accepting a story that reshaped how he saw the relationship. He eventually found his way back.
That lived experience became the foundation of his work helping parents understand what their children may be thinking, what creates resistance, and what can begin to change the relationship.
For more than two decades, Ryan has worked at the intersection of communication, crisis strategy, media, and complex family relationships, serving clients in 25 countries. He is the author of Sabotaged, Confessions of an Alienated Child, and The Relationship Standoff.
Get Them Back brings his complete relationship rebuilding system together in one place.
You Finally Have a Plan.
Every conversation. Every setback. Every opening. Every next move.
All guided by Ryan Thomas's complete navigation system.
Everything Inside
Get Them Back: Private
- 8 Weeks of Private Audio Guidance with Ryan Thomas
- Ryan's Complete Video Training — The Eight Stages
- Step-by-Step Communication Training
- Emotion & Mindset Training
- Your Personalized Playbook
- Scripts, Templates & Messages
- Eight On-Demand Momentum Sessions
- GTB: Evolve
- Ryan's Best-of Communication Coaching Library
- Jen's Best-of Emotion Coaching Library
- The Alienated Mind: Parental Alienation Explained
- Bonus: "Limited or No-Contact" Strategies Library
- Lifetime Access
$4,997
or 2 payments of $2,700
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