Private Advisory with Ryan Thomas
The Back Channel
A direct private line to Ryan for 90 days.
When something happens, you don't have to wait for the next appointment to talk about it.
A message comes in. Silence suddenly breaks. A conversation goes sideways. You're deciding whether to respond, wait, push, back off, or change direction.
Every situation tells a different story. Most people are trapped inside the story they're living.
Bring the situation to Ryan while it still matters.
The right words only matter after the situation is understood.
Before deciding what to say, Ryan looks at what's really happening. Before making the next move, he slows the situation down enough to see what others miss.
Because judgment always comes before language.
Ongoing Private Access
You Don't Have to Save the Situation for a Future Call.
For 90 days, you have a private channel to Ryan through Telegram.
The Back Channel is asynchronous private advisory, giving you direct access without requiring you and Ryan to be available at the same time.
Send your voice or text message when the situation is happening or when the question is on your mind. Ryan personally reviews what's happening and responds with his perspective, strategy, and what he believes you should do next on designated advisory days each week.
The situation sets the agenda.
No Calendar Required
Private Advisory Without Building Your Life Around Another Appointment.
Relationships don't unfold according to a calendar. The Back Channel is designed around that reality.
You don't need to schedule a weekly coaching session or hold a question until the next call. When something meaningful changes, you can bring it into the channel.
Access when the decision matters — not weeks after it happened.
Some situations deserve complete focus. Undivided attention. The freedom to think clearly. The space to prepare deliberately.
The Back Channel gives you Ryan's judgment as the situation develops — preparing for conversations, thinking through decisions, and shaping what happens next.
When Ryan is in your corner, you think more clearly.
The goal isn't simply to survive one difficult conversation. It's to make better decisions throughout the relationship — with someone beside you who understands the dynamics, sees the patterns, and knows what to look for next.
Included with Private Advisory
The Private Advisory Arsenal
The Back Channel isn't just access to Ryan. You also receive the frameworks, strategies, communication tools, and training behind the way he thinks — so you can understand the strategy while you're using it.
Ryan's Complete Navigation System
The full Get Them Back framework for understanding where you are in the relationship, what matters most now, and what to do next.
Communication Strategy
Ryan's communication training, message structures, scripts, templates, timing principles, and practical tools for difficult real-life situations.
Recorded Coaching & Case Breakdowns
Ryan's best communication coaching, real-world examples, and strategic breakdowns you can revisit as new situations arise.
Relationship Intelligence Library
Training on alienation, belief formation, emotional dynamics, limited or no-contact strategies, and the hidden forces shaping the relationship.
Built for Meaningful Access — Not More Meetings.
The Back Channel is designed for the questions, developments, conversations, and decisions that genuinely matter.
You don't have to ration everything into one weekly submission. When something significant happens, bring it into the channel. Ryan reviews and responds personally on designated advisory days each week, keeping the work focused, thoughtful, and useful without turning your relationship into another appointment schedule.
Proximity to Ryan's judgment — with structure that keeps the work sharp.
Inside The Engagement
90 days of ongoing private voice and text access through Telegram.
Ryan personally reviews and responds to meaningful developments, questions, and decisions.
The Relationship Negotiator's judgment, frameworks, and perspective applied directly to your situation.
Access to Ryan's complete Private Advisory Arsenal, including the Get Them Back system and supporting resources.
$15,000
or 3 payments of $5,000
Private Advisory is designed for people who want Ryan close to the situation — not simply another session on the calendar.
Questions before enrolling?
Send our team a note.
The work happens behind closed doors. Most of the people Ryan has helped reach never knew he existed.
That's exactly how it should be.
